Habit 4
4. Think
win-win
Teens can
learn to foster the belief that it is possible to create an atmosphere of
win-win in every relationship. This habit encourages the idea that in any given
discussion or situation both parties can arrive at any mutually beneficial solution.
Your teen will learn to celebrate the accomplishments of others instead of
being threatened by them. Win-win is a belief that everyone can win. It’s both
nice and tough all at once. I won’t step on you, but I won’t be your doormat either.
You care about other people and you want them to succeed but you also care
about yourself and you want to succeed as well. Win-win is abundant. It is the
belief that there is plenty of success to go around. It’s not either you or me.
It’s both of us. It’s a matter of who gets the biggest piece of the pie. There’s
more than enough food for everyone. It’s an all you can eat buffet.
Win-win
always creates more. Perhaps the most surprising benefit of thinking win-win is
the good feelings it brings on. The true test of whether or not you are
thinking win-win or none of the alternatives is how you feel win-lose and
lose-win thinking will cloud your judgment and fill you with negative feelings.
Win-win
will fill your heart with happy and serene thoughts. It will give you
confidence. Even fill you with light. Think win-win or no deal.
CHOOSE THE
RIGHT!!!
No comments:
Post a Comment